We are Fam-i-ly

I spent Mother's Day with my family. Missing my sister who doesn't live near, and enjoying the company of my parents, my aunt, and my sisters and brother who do.

We start the afternoon off with chips and dips (enough to spoil your appetite for the burgers and dogs) and laughter and catching up. Before lunch we have our usual prayer to bless our meal. My mama said the prayer and she asked God for a special blessing for her daughter that wasn't there, and continued blessings for those present. Then she paused. I'm not sure if it was for reflection, or time for her to compose herself before continuing. Sometimes she gets emotional praying for her loved ones, especially her children.

I remember then why I love my children so much. Because my mama loves me. No matter what. No matter how stupid my actions, no matter how irresponsible I am - she always loves me. I'm sure there are times when she loves me more, but I know there are NEVER times when she loves me less. I honestly believe she is incapable of loving me less.

Both of my parents have taught me to be a good person. I'm not always successful, but it's because of my own selfishness that I sometimes fail. My children know that I love them, and I hope that they know that I love them unconditionally just as my parents love me.

Things my mother taught me:

1. don't mess with your hair in the kitchen or anywhere around food
2. wash your hands after the bathroom and before you touch any food
3. it doesn't matter if your kids are embarrassed - knowing what they are up to at all times - friends, school, home - even going to school to talk to the teachers - is your parental right and responsibility
4. don't talk about monkeys at the table
5. take care of your skin when you're young - the sun is not your friend (she has great skin - you'd never know she's 77)

Happy Mother's Day Mama... I love you.